Tuesday, September 13, 2005

why i shud marry at age 21.

Now i am not saying that i should marry at this age but i do have a lot of people around me who do point out the blessed virtues of an early marriage ( mainly aunties who should rightfully be sent to mental asylums , no pun intended. )
1. You get loads of new clothes---- hello.....????? new clothes, new clothes???? spoil my life for new clothes!!!!! I can get loads of new clothes at some pathetic sale at Ganna sansthan as well , why marry for it ???
2. If you marry young you have a better chance of getting a good guy----- see, if i'm a buddhi when i decide to marry, i'll marry a buddha! whats the big deal, huh? 'girte-padte' complete the pheraz, trembling voice mein say whatever has to said, take out fake teeth from thier saline solution when pics have to be taken, invite only 'buddhas' for the wedding , begin a new life at a brand new old age home.Seems fine to me...what say??
3. Its difficult to find guys for higly educated girls----( this ofcourse was said by this one aunty who was discouraging me from aiming for CAT.), Btech in any case is too much i guess . THis one is like real stupid... so girls should not study ( a very indignant ) hello????? The aunty concerned is kindly requested to return from 3rd century B.C wherein she seems to take pride in reposing,to good old 21st century A.D.
4. Coz this other cousin has gotten married---- now...she has gotten married, thats allright, its her life, but how can you ignore the fact that shes 32!!!!
( I am only in 3rd year right now....and have had to face a considerable number of aunties in full form...God only can give them strength to see me do my MBA, and marry real late, if at all !!!! However thank God for sensible parents who keep me away from the shadee -wadee ka chakkar!)


dotty_pixie said...

i agree with all the aunties..
u MUST get married at 21..in fact u shud have gotten married at 18..why wait??
so anyway..i'm geting my sari ready..temme when the wedding is??
best of luck

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Ashish said...

psstttt... you even listen to such aunties. I pity you if u do listen to them just to be nice OR I have my sympathy with you if you cannot skip these aunties.

I really understand the awkward situation at parties or with relatives :-s They just dont stop thinking about it ! as if marriage is a pasttime for them ! as if they are in need of some entertainment once in a while :-"

I just take them with a square hand if they even dare talk about my marriage ;) I just tell them I am no more single- I married my gf, outside home without telling anyone =)) =)) and most of them are enough shy to not utter a word after such a flow of words with such "besharmi" :P

my funda is to be more shameless than they can handle. God help thee when with such aunties

Raam Pyari said...

nivndya--- i am back and in full form!!!

ashish--- yeah! u are rite but then somehow i cant be rude ..:( so i just hear all that they have to say and keep nodding my head tll it almost falls off!