tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post4046265767472825033..comments2024-02-24T19:16:15.020+00:00Comments on Blogging all the way...: Rhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08566262501480000154noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-26408929364397982472015-05-29T07:53:06.944+01:002015-05-29T07:53:06.944+01:00Get your preferred Chettiyar partner on Chettiyar ...Get your preferred Chettiyar partner on <a href="http://www.matchfinder.in/chettiyar-matrimony" rel="nofollow">Chettiyar matrimony portal</a> today. Many Chettiyar people have made their lives beautiful by registering with us.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02877160051357397353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-87862418103280274292011-05-20T10:28:23.891+01:002011-05-20T10:28:23.891+01:00Believe me, finding a guy with bare minimum requir...Believe me, finding a guy with bare minimum requirements, as you mentioned, is a real touch job :(Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11310927633438983428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-16827653026651695342011-02-25T19:53:18.094+00:002011-02-25T19:53:18.094+00:00Nice blog..BTW what book are u publishing? I would...Nice blog..BTW what book are u publishing? I would like to read :-)Shubhika Tanejahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12445044165228177485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-83987364364510131492011-02-24T08:56:58.540+00:002011-02-24T08:56:58.540+00:00Arranged marriage has some much understand and wit...Arranged marriage has some much understand and withstand.But still a kid makes a diff turn in life altogether.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-37658996582139552312011-02-23T21:50:17.950+00:002011-02-23T21:50:17.950+00:00@tanvii- yes, it is a lot of work to make it work....@tanvii- yes, it is a lot of work to make it work. you forgive some, you fight some. All is still new to me...maybe once you have been married for longer (maybe) boredom sets in and monotony kicks in .....<br /><br />@ketaki- yes! thats quite similar! thanks for dropping by- will keep visiting your page for more:)<br /><br />@Calvin- you did! I know they are very very geeky! I am planning to go public with my blog soon and i think i will have to delete most of those posts :P<br /><br />@DI- Actualy I think you are abs right. Someitmes its as simple as wamting to make it work...some people dont even have to make that conscious decision, I guess..it happens most naturally for them..<br /><br />@Bikram- true..okay he is not that good also.:P but basically a nice human being and honestly, thats all that I want :) keep visting!<br /><br />@Dipali- well put! :)<br /><br />@scorpria- Have you blogged your story? It will be an interesting read! I am all ears!<br /><br />@neha- yes, also because after living with someone for say 1 year you do get to know him/ her very well....so yes its the basic temperament that really matters...<br /><br />@Mansi- and as the wiser say it, 'so are thunder and lightning!' <br />:PRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08566262501480000154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-78180270293370886932011-02-23T21:43:32.700+00:002011-02-23T21:43:32.700+00:00Prathima- maybe you blog about some of the guys yo...Prathima- maybe you blog about some of the guys you met! I am sure it will be a post wirth reading!:P<br /><br /><br />@dee- true you have to look at one another as a team..thats the only way it will work!<br /><br />@shilpa- true...whether a marriage works or no has little to do with how the two people met...<br /><br />@wanderlust-thats interesting! three sisters all did diffferent things or should i say reacted differently!Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08566262501480000154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-38214830625190588902011-02-23T21:21:12.877+00:002011-02-23T21:21:12.877+00:00interesting post, and as the wise put it...marriag...interesting post, and as the wise put it...marriages are really made in heaven! (after reading all the comments above, that's what comes to my mind) :)Mansihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04343326081286531135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-35741657704391201102011-02-23T19:34:46.277+00:002011-02-23T19:34:46.277+00:00I think in the long run what counts is the willing...I think in the long run what counts is the willingness of both the partners to contribute to the relationship happily and 'wanting' to be with each other.<br />I knew my husband all through grad school and we were friends before we got married, but i think irrespective of whether its arranged or love marriage, the same things count in the long run.Nehahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11514770859221592913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-56797624409669006862011-02-23T13:55:39.384+00:002011-02-23T13:55:39.384+00:00Stay happy always :)
Mine was a love marriage -- a...Stay happy always :)<br />Mine was a love marriage -- and being from 2 religions, it was quite a deal, esp in his family ;)<br /><br />I always wanted a husband with a good character. And he does. Nothing else mattered...and i guess i just got more than what i bargained for ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-69663468802429734762011-02-23T12:12:24.333+00:002011-02-23T12:12:24.333+00:00The magic words are Respect, Trust and Love!The magic words are Respect, Trust and Love!dipalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01070862196307376073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-31244516292909655642011-02-23T11:59:41.580+00:002011-02-23T11:59:41.580+00:00THats good, and All the best with everything .. it...THats good, and All the best with everything .. it is difficult to meet a person so good these days .. <br /><br />Things have changed priorities have changed so with that the ideals and the needs have changed hence the problem to find the perfect husband/wife.. <br /><br />Lucky are those people who get them .. I beleive that if you treat others as you yourself would want to be treated then life can be jsut so lovely to live together ... <br /><br />take care and Be happy :) i beleive be honest ... <br /><br /><a href="http://mannbikram.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow">Bikram's</a>Bikramhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17320753339263375295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-88337021393382374852011-02-23T11:02:29.592+00:002011-02-23T11:02:29.592+00:00You are indeed lucky! Every girl I know who had an...You are indeed lucky! Every girl I know who had an arranged marriage, had their share of bad experiences :)<br />Good for you though!<br />About what makes relationships work, I think, that unless someone is way off the tangent, if you want it to work it does! I believed common tastes, likes and dislikes played a huge part, but frankly, as long as you are happy with each other, nothing seems to matter :DDIhttp://foreverinbluejeans.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-33864060107669788132011-02-23T08:37:35.329+00:002011-02-23T08:37:35.329+00:00I did read some of the pre-2009 posts, and god, th...I did read some of the pre-2009 posts, and god, they are geeky :)<br /><br />And no clue on arranged marriages, was always scared with the concept, and about hurting some poor girl's ego...so had to 'fight' it out in the open market :DSKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17617222246452488395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-64075877013266346902011-02-23T05:52:20.070+00:002011-02-23T05:52:20.070+00:00Came across your blog for the first time. Very nic...Came across your blog for the first time. Very nicely put and we have an uncanny similar life. I married my husband when I was 24. It was an arrange marriage and he was the only guy I ever met. <br />I hardly knew him when I married him, now after 2 years of being married to him I cannot be more sure that I was meant to be with him. :)<br />Keep writingKetaki...https://www.blogger.com/profile/00654399154746779431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-67269401261186758182011-02-23T04:34:51.777+00:002011-02-23T04:34:51.777+00:00I believe there is no definite criteria for a marr...I believe there is no definite criteria for a marriage to work [arranged or love] ... Everyone is constantly changing and growing ... so as long as two people can find a balance while changing they will continue to click. It is of course not as simple as this but I think unless a person is not 100% sure that they can make the commitment they should stay away from marriage. It is a lot of fun but also a lot of hard work to make the relationship work. <br /><br />Thanks for the Birthday wishes! :)Tanvihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05491567577469019680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-14583348851658570242011-02-23T04:29:17.427+00:002011-02-23T04:29:17.427+00:00It is very difficut to say what makes it click ini...It is very difficut to say what makes it click initially in an arranged marriage. I ahve two sisters one who just spoke to the guy over phone and decided he is the one and another who met , talked and then almost did a satyagraha at home to get that guy. For me, I could never think of an arranged marriage.<br />Once the wedding and then the honeymoon is over, it is basic understanding, respect, care and love for each other that matters whether it is arranged of love.<br />Thanks for coming by my page :-)wanderlusthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00864855488441029322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-88207842984409007412011-02-23T04:04:53.332+00:002011-02-23T04:04:53.332+00:00There are 2 sides of a coin in every situation and...There are 2 sides of a coin in every situation and so is the case in both arranged marriages (AMs)and love marriages (LMs). There are successful as well as failed AMs and like wise in LMs.<br /><br />I believe, the key to any successful relationship is... both the partners need to put in efforts to make the relationship work... trust, communication, letting go certain things, being assertive on others etc.Shilpa Garghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11016927627801620377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-33014834934225685682011-02-23T03:33:30.520+00:002011-02-23T03:33:30.520+00:00You know I was married the conservative way-parent...You know I was married the conservative way-parents decide and lo and behold marriage was upon me! I must say it was both our likenesses and differences tht have helped us hold on-despite ups and downs! and the will of both to hold on, sometimes of one then of the other! Think of your self as a team! It has helped us!Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05032391192972700381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14099725.post-68673115295503047632011-02-23T03:15:44.500+00:002011-02-23T03:15:44.500+00:00Lucky you!:) I went through the so called boy hunt...Lucky you!:) I went through the so called boy hunt and it was not easy at all! never felt someone was right for me until I met my hubby:) lost the count after first few:)Prathimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16292232929801598492noreply@blogger.com